This is by far the most emotionally turbulent subject of all. It’s full with PUSH BUTTON REACTIONS and everybody seems to have access to these buttons. Especially parents, in-laws, spouses and even kids seem to know exactly how to press them. My daughter for example knows exactly how to trigger my generosity button. I guess it’s intuitive.
WHAT do you get out of your relationship??
The answer is very simple. “YOU GET WHAT YOU NEED” in order for you to grow and evolve.
Everybody wants love, respect and appreciation and certainly a bit of affection. This is what you deserve and if you don’t get it you feel that life is cheating you.
But is this what you really need from your partners? (boss, parents, siblings, in-laws, friends, clients, partner, spouse) Is this what helps you grow?